You didn't lose anyone, dude.
For one thing, this is totally not your fault. Did you wish 10 tornadoes on yourself and your town? Don't think so.
We're still there. We're just all sort of busy. It's the end of the school year, we all have work to catch up on. Plus, lots of unfortunate events have been going on, causing some of us to lose contact with the site.
It's not dead. It's just quieter. It'll liven up again soon.